Q&A: “Where do you get your ideas?”

My four blogs have varying levels of activity. My business website will soon contain articles on several techie subjects, as soon as I finish updating the material from my old site. I also contribute to threads on waaay too many email discussion lists.

I’m often asked where I get so many ideas for stuff to write about. This question irritates many writers, but I really don’t mind. I consider it an educational opportunity—a chance to nudge more people into doing what I do.

Where do I get ideas?
Everywhere!

First, I read. I read a lot. Novels, non-fiction books, magazines, professional journals, news websites, blogs, and aggregator sites like Arts and Letters Daily and Live Science. Almost everything I read triggers a new train of thought (new to me, at least) about some issue in whatever text I’m reading. Whether it’s the relationship between two characters in a novel, a new technique I can use in my professional work, a historical incident, a current news event, or even speculation about why the media considers a particular uninteresting event to be newsworthy, I’m always encountering something that makes me think.

Second, I do. I work. As a freelancer, I wear several different hats: technical writer, editor, web designer, computer coach, trainer, and singer. I also volunteer for a couple of non-profit organizations. I enjoy my work, both professional and volunteer, and I meet interesting people through each activity. I like learning to use new work-related tools, perfecting each of my skills, and I really enjoy finding better ways to do each task.

Third, I observe. Wherever I am, whatever I’m doing, I watch and listen and think about what I see and hear. Blame it on childhood training. Every day, at dinner, my mother asked me detailed questions about my day.

  • What did you learn today?
  • Did you meet anyone interesting?
  • Did you see anything unusual on your way home from school?
  • What books are you reading?
  • Did you sing a new song in choir?

Her motivation was to stay connected to my life as both of us got busier and life got more and more complicated as I grew up, but I consider this one of the greatest gifts she gave me: I learned to pay attention to my surroundings, and be able to describe them and talk about my reaction to them.

And then, after reading/doing/observing/thinking, I write. Writing helps me sort out and clarify my thoughts. It isn’t always fun—thoughts can sometimes be uncomfortable, painful, scary—but making things make sense, at least to myself, always makes me feel better.

None of this is rocket science or brain surgery. It requires nothing except curiosity, mindfulness, the ability to make mental connections between things that are and things the way they might be, and the willingness to make the time to put pen to paper (or fingers to keyboard) to get the mental words out in some tangible form.

Read.
Do.
Observe.
Think.
Write.

That’s what I do. You can do it, too.

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Note to self: Add pages

One of the things I’m enjoying about NaBloPoMo is the requirement to read the blogs of other participants.

No, I don’t enjoy the subject matter in every post. I’m not into typical mommy stuff, and I don’t cook. And…I have to say it…and I’m getting very, VERY tired of websites with little fake snowflakes skittering down the pages. Between those 1995-style fake snowflakes and the black floaters in my eyes, it feels like I’m trying to read through a salt and pepper cascade.

(There. I’ve said it. The world didn’t end.)

No, what I’m enjoying is the sheer variety. Different personalities. Different priorities. Different writing styles. Different emotional reactions to events and situations that, on the surface, seem similar. What a wonderfully diverse buncha people! I’ve got a growing list of books I want to read, another list of things I want to learn more about, and I’ve come across one or two bloggers that I will be following for a long time.

(polishes crystal ball)
I foresee a cluster of new pages in this website’s future:

  • Do! (things I want to do someday)
  • Read! (specific books I want to read)
  • Explore! (subjects I want to learn more about; skills I want to learn)
  • Declutter Hall of Fame (stuff I haven’t been able to let go of, some of it photographed and eulogized before it’s donated or trashed)

This is going to be fun!

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Webster Arboretum

On November 25, the day after Thanksgiving, we were at loose ends. We aren’t “Black Friday” shoppers, and wanted to avoid the crowds, but didn’t feel like hanging out at home. Since we needed both cider and apples, and Schutt’s mill starts pressing their Russet apples the week of Thanksgiving, we decided to make a pilgrimage for the best cider on earth, stopping at the Webster Arboretum on the way.

The Rochester metropolitan area is blessed with wonderful parks, from tiny neighborhood pocket parks to the elegantly laid out designs of our three Frederick Law Olmsted parks, to suburban recreational parks, to chunks of preserved semi-wild areas. This arboretum is a recent addition to the collection, with a variety of native trees and shrubs, a stream and pond, paved and gravel walkways, a covered footbridge, and a couple of small gardens with benches. Andy had never been there, so I worked on him. He agreed to allow a half hour for a walk in the park on our way to Schutt’s. Of course, we didn’t stop when the half hour was up. We spent a lovely hour and a half walking up and down the trails before driving a bit further to the apple farm.

I haven’t seen Andy’s photos from that afternoon. I shot a few landscapes, but concentrated mostly on playing with the settings on my camera. I’ve always had difficulty controlling depth of field, and this seemed like a good opportunity to practice. Here are a few favorites.

Andy with his camera

Andy with his camera

Andy doesn’t like having his picture taken. He stiffens up, puts a smile on his face, and doesn’t look quite normal. If I want a picture of Andy looking line Andy, I need to wait until he’s concentrating really hard on something else.

 

 

 

 

 

depth of field #1

Cattails and weeds

It took quite a few shots to get this one. I tried various shutter speeds and apertures, but nothing was quite right. I wanted the delicate twigs, but  the camera kept focusing on everything but the twigs: the elderly cattails, dead leaves, cars in the parking lot, or kids running by on the other side of the stream. And the wind was gusty, so most of the shots were blurry.

I finally decided to use the Sport setting, one of the programmed “scene” settings, and it turned out exactly the way I wanted.

 

 

depth of field #2

Almost perfect!

Without changing the settings at all, I walked a few steps farther along the stream and found another cattail. This one had just started to distribute its seeds.

Why almost perfect? I would have preferred to have a simple landscape in the background, instead of the playground picnic tables. But the timing couldn’t have been better. A small gust blew the first ring of seeds off just as I pressed the shutter button!

 

 

autumn berries

Autumn berries

I’m so pleased with this one!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

andy with camera #2

Andy

I couldn’t resist this one. Think I’ll crop it and suggest Andy use it on his Facebook profile for a while.

 

 

 

 

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Colors

colors

Produce department, Wegman's Pittsford

Here you see one of the reasons I love living in Rochester, New York: the huge variety of locally grown fruits and vegetables.

While we get most of our produce from the City of Rochester’s public market, I also love shopping at this store, the flagship store of the Wegman’s supermarket chain. Besides the wonderful produce, they have an amazing variety of everything:  Eleven brands of arboreo rice to choose from, when Andy wants to make risotto. Hundreds of varieties of tea, bagged or loose. The 20-foot-long cheese case, full of domestic and imported specialty cheeses.

Drool!

(To see a larger version of the photograph, just click on it.)

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Life is a WiP, full of UFOs

(I know, I hate acronyms in titles, too. But, if I wrote it all out, it would be too long. Trust me, the page looks really ugly when the title phrase wraps twice.)

I was reading a blog yesterday, a stitcher’s blog. She’s starting a yearlong exercise she calls WIPocolypse, in which she lists every Work In Progress that she wants to work on in 2012. She’ll do monthly posts on the day of the full moon (she’s a witch) with pictures of her progress on each project. The goal? To reduce the number of UFOs (Unfinished Objects) in her life.

magazines in baskets

To Read baskets in the living room (there are more in our bedroom and my office)

Our huge house, 10 rooms not counting

  • bathrooms
  • halls the size of my childhood bedroom
  • stair landings large enough for real furniture
  • front and back entryways
  • three unfinished attic sections
  • three small walled-off storage areas in the basement

is filled with symptoms of the unfinished projects  (UPs?) in my life: books and magazine articles to read, knitting/needlepoint/sewing/watercolor projects, various types of stuff in various stages of sorting/filing/weeding.  Every year, I finish one or two of these, while adding several more.

2010 was the beginning of a change. I actually began to make visible progress on several of the largest household and personal projects. 2011 was even better. Not only was there more progress on the big stuff, I also managed to finish more small projects than I started.

If I’m going to do even better in 2012, my efforts will have to become methodical and structured.

flowerpots

Flower pots have taken over the dining room table.

Even though only a few of my UPs involve needlework UFOs (the half-finished sweater that is now two sizes too small, the needlepoint piece that was intended to cover the seat of a chair that now needs joint repair, the scarves I started last year and the year before that and…), I’m going to borrow the term WIPocolypse and start my own UPs list. It will include craft projects, art projects, jewelry repair, organizing my plant stuff, cleaning the attic, setting up a sewing room, excavating my office from the decades of school and work files, reducing the mountain of magazines that have one or two articles I want to read…you get the idea

My WiP list will have a few work-related projects on it, too: converting my years of writing samples from a notebook to an online portfolio (and doing killer SEO on it),  doing a new marketing plan, adding articles to my business website, learning Moodle so I can put some of my seminars and workshops online.

I expect the initial list will be somewhat intimidating. That’s OK. I know I don’t have to finish everything in 2012, although that would be nice. But I will finish at least one major project in each category (professional, personal, household), and be able to show significant progress in several others.

I may also decide to abandon a project or two, once I have everything out in the open where I can see it.

That’s also a kind of progress.

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